I think it's a good sign that OW is putting pressure on him. She won't wait forever. So now you know what not to do. Wait for the negative feelings to subside and try to start engaging him as a friend. If it is easier to be with you than with OW, he will want to be around you more. There is always hope.
Also, he is still in blame mode. My H is, too. Don't believe any of what you hear, remember?
Me:33, H:34 T10, M8 S4,S3,S9m ILYBINILWY 11/07 Separation 1 2/08-8/08 Back Home 8/08-10/08 Separation 2 10/08- Too many bombs to count:(
