here's a question I just keep wondering about...should I send my W an email and just let her know that if she ever wants to work on our marriage - if, after we're separated for a while, she wants to try, that I am open to it?
my vote is no and here's why.
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I said it to her the night before she moved out - and I know she heard the words
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though they might not have meant anything to her....I should be emphasize that I am still open - only because it's a possibility that is there
just because she's in a fog does not mean she is deaf. beleive me, she has heard every word you've said since the bomb was dropped, she has watched your every action and inaction. These things play through her mind daily...probably more than they play through yours. because women are wired that way.
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allowing her to initiate communication - unless it's something that has to do with money matters or our baby.
what is wrong with a little time and space?? I mean that is what she wanted right?? Why not listen Carlos..Can you hear her??
because women are wired that way. 
