Oh--this is even better. Guess who's doing the funeral for SIL's father? You guessed it--H.

Yeah, they're not taking sides, they're being supportive but not involved in our lives. Except they don't want to hear from me and H is doing a funeral for them.

I'm sorry, I know that's not what all this is about, but puh-leeze. He's torn apart the family but they want him burying their dad.

And I'm just so grateful for the support I get--both from OW and from my BIL and SIL--please don't send emails to our home.

Thanks for letting me vent. I need it!!!


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012