here's a question I just keep wondering about...should I send my W an email and just let her know that if she ever wants to work on our marriage - if, after we're separated for a while, she wants to try, that I am open to it? Or does that kind of thing just backfire? I said it to her the night before she moved out - and I know she heard the words - though they might not have meant anything to her....I should be emphasize that I am still open - only because it's a possibility that is there - it is not something I am pursuing or want to convince her to do...I just wonder if it's important that she know I am open to it - or if it's best just to leave things as they are - allowing her to initiate communication - unless it's something that has to do with money matters or our baby. Any thoughts? Coach - how did you handle it?
