Dear Mare, My heart reaches out to you and all that you are going through. I am glad that you are going for counseling. I hope that it is helpful to you. This is a lot to comprehend and you have a lot of decisions to make. Please put yourself first, your physical and emotional well being. As I have learned about my husband, you are not responsible nor do you have any control over what your husband does. You have to protect yourself. Please let us know how you are doing. We all care. Love, Nicole
