Originally Posted By: chicki
Why does X feel the need to BUY our kids love??

What make people do these things?

One time I did ask him if he was buying their love & @ first he didnt admit it but then he laughing did admit.


chicki,

From my perspective, I think he is overcompensating. He violated his M vows. He left their mother. He left them. He chose to run off and have "fun" with OW INSTEAD of being a H and a father. I think he realizes just how badly he screwed up in several areas. His way of attempting to "make things right" is by buying them things.

I know this is not a revelation to most. But, I had to share my personal thoughts.

Take Care,

RMG

"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"