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I did once have a pretty vivid dream of a teenie weenie redheaded D running up to me to give me a warm embrace. And I really never recall any dreams. What a tease that is/was.


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I was blessed w/ 3 little boys (no little red headed girls). Two have darker hair and the middle one is blond (w/ blue eyes from my dad). All of them have red highlights in the sun, but no full-on red heads.

So, Tomato, what do you think about the email thing?


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I just checked back to find out about what you were asking my opinion on as far as the email. Since, I will admit that I have not been following along until now.

Thanks for the easy starter Q. I think it is pretty clear that he was checking up on you for reasons that only he knows of.

Take care my fellow distinguished friend. And pray more and you will be happier. It is not about just making sure the boys get to church. I just started going to a new one ...a UCC church. I like it and may settle there and try and get active.


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Hi Red--about the email thing...if you have nothing to hide, hide nothing. \:\) It might not hurt to set an example for him and give him full access...just a thought.


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I don't have anything to hide, so I am not going to worry about it. I don't necessarily want to ask him if he was trying to get into my email, so telling him he is free to access my email is kind of out of the question.

It's incredible right now how much love he is showing me! I am just making sure I'm reciprocating no matter what is going on.


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Red,

I got another take on the email thing. I remember lwb getting really steamed one day that she thought her H had been at her emails. Turned out it had been her kids playing on the PC.....and her eldest is younger than yours.

Don't assume it was your H.


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Hey Saffie,

Do you have a thread I can talk to you at?? Interestingly enough my H invited me on a trip this Friday 11/7 to London. And some of the time I will be just hanging out around town taking in the sights by myself while he works.

Whatcha think?

Kim


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Kim,

I haven't got a thread at the moment....I just tend to cruise.

I have the farrier coming out to my horses Friday. I live about 50 mins by train out of London. Would be love to meet up if you were able to train out to me but due to the farrier being with me right in the middle of the day my travelling down to London is resticted. I can always meet you at the station and we could go do something near me.

You on FB or know any of the peeps on here who have my email?


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Kim,

Just reread your post and realised you didn't actually mean meet on the Friday...just that was when the trip started.

I am up for a meet up. Let me know which days are best for you.

Hope you don't mind the hijack Red.


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When you get a chance, I need your take on something from H.

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