I began to read your response this morning while having my breakfast at Chick-fil-A.... As I started, the song Jesus Take the Wheel by Carrie Underwood began to play.... I remembered before the bomb, how I was in my study working and listening to that song when my exW came in, heard it playing and stormed out.... I then returned to reading your post....
I got to where you wrote:
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We have a saying in AA....
"One alcoholic helping another is without parallel".
I believe this is true also of us divorced Christians who have also found ourselves uncomfortable with our church experiences. When we hear our story told by someone else who is simply describing his own life.
Again, what happened back then with my exW shot through my mind..... God pointed out my exW was angry with Him as well as me.... It was not about me.... It was about my exW's issues... I was so touched by God... I felt like God had healed me just a little more... I sat there at Chick-fil-A with tears streaming down my face....
I know in our machismo culture, that is taboo.... I really do not worry about what our culture "teaches".... Real men have emotions.... That is just the way it is.... The great thing is real, healthy women love that....
Take Care,
RMG
Last edited by RMG77739; 11/05/0803:56 PM.
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
