I have done the, " silence " thing on the phone when he's called before. In all honesty I did it out of spite at the time. Thinking to myself, " If that guy can't even think of something to say, wtf! " Never worked, there would be silence until he said goodbye. Once he even fell asleep. lol Arghhh!!!!!!!!! But, I may try now as things are suppose to be moving in a different direction.
I did leave a message on his phone yesterday. I told him that seeing as I probably can not write him, I would occasionally leave voice mails. So I left a comment about how I felt this wouldn't be able to move forward if he always thought I was lying. His saying he doesn't remember is fine, but then to add it didn't happen, is not acceptable to me. I didn't say that though.... lol Just said that we have to have a mutual trust between us if we hope to make it etc. I told him he could eventually touch on that in one of his letters if he wanted. That was the tiny hint that I'm still waiting for a letter.
I have to say, I feel like Im in grade school here having to do it this way. It's hard not to get mad and call him and say > GROW UP! I really find this nuts that I am having to wait for a letter to talk to my husband. I will though, for the time being. (( ackkk cough cough )) lol
That is horrible what happened to your H Jayce! Does he talk about it? I am assuming no, and if he has, its > it was then, I am fine now. Horrible how people can be toward one another.
As for the CPAP, is there anything that they can do that is different. Diff mask maybe? It's too bad he didn't have it long enough to get the rewards out of it, then maybe he would have stuck it out. I'm not sure what you can do at this point, cause he seems pretty adamant to NOT want to like it. Hopefully mon they will have something better for him.
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