Signs to say WAW woke up?

[dday101798]

Thanks Amy for responding!

Not sure what you meant by "out her to him". If I'm interpreting that correctly it's file D? If so, regretfully, that is an option becoming more of a reality as you're right, I'm being played, hardcore.

I sent a message last night asking if she had a second or two (being it later at night I figured OM would be there).

She immediately called back and I started off with asking how she was feeling, says she's been sick lately with "some viral thing". She said bad and the phamrmacy wouldn't give her her prescription due to her ID being expired. I offered to go get it for her. She immediately rejected the offer very addimently. Seing I'm the insurance provider this really sparks my curiosity.

I then pitched the idea I had of meeting for dinner tonight and running her idea past the kids as I feel a whole week is too long and we should do a get together once if not twice to let them know the other parent is still around. I didn't mention anything of the 'intnet' to give us a chance to work on the "friends" thing.

She says "are you sure that's such a good idea?". I figured she meant the kids having a imput and I said yes, I'd like to see what they think of it. She replies "no, I mean I can't be friends with you, I'll never be civil with you, it won't work."

So, yeah, kill em with kindness and they still reject you.

Whatever, I calmly ended the talk right then and there with , I don't understand, last night you were begging me to be friends with you and tonight you completely turned that around, so just think about it for bit. I said, well, I just wanted to see how you were doing and extend the offer and goodnight.

No call or anything this morning, why? Because OM's car was parked out front yet again. Seems they have to spend their time together in the day now since her father moved back into HIS house as he and his GF broke up. Rent, moorgage still hasn't been picked up, owell, not my problem.

Had more problems and lies out of son about his make up work not being done from when he was out last week so I'm expecting a call from school as I called last night and gave a heads up that he didn't do all but one assignment. He's becoming more mouthy by the day and I'm losing control of him. Hopefully they recommend a good local counselor for us to see.

Well, that's where I stand at the moment, I try, I get spit on. I back off, I get lies to stay close. This is destroying my kids and she doesn't seem to care. A lot of my friends and I are in agreeance she must have 'graduated' from smoking pot to something harder. She looks like hell, never has any money despite the fact she has no financial responsibility what so ever.

I'm affraid I may just have to let the L do his thing and file for the best interest of the kids. I'm just scared of going that route because obviously since I'm here, it's not what I want and they will probably throw the case out knowing that I'll just be out more money.

So, I'll jsut back off and carry on 'til the next round of lies I guess.