As long as none of us get divorced and our H's don't remarry there is always a chance...the more we distance ourselves to relieve negativity we might get to where T2L is and want to be nice or start playing again.... but as you read other blogs.... even from Men - you have to do tough love at the beginning .... harder for me as I need my H to help with the kids so I have to have contact but trying to make it brief and pleasant and upbeat...
I'm off for the day - I'm in New Orleans on business .. I'll check back tonight.. I have a friend who's husband and my husband have talked and she filled me in on some stuff my H said right after the bomb dropped I'll update my thread tonight....
more later.
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
