I dont think you are over reacting Arthur, I feel the same way about this house and I havent even left yet! But considering staying over, it will good time spent with the kids. Dont worry about what your STBX is doing, she is going to do it anyway. Sleep on a couch if you are too skeezed about the bed, I would be too.
Married 6 years D4 D4 S2 seperated: 7/15/08 Dbomb: 9/21/08 status: seperated in same home, meeting with mediator moving toward D current thread