Morning ITH!! Wow yes your H is very confusing!! LoL I think you giving him his space is the best thing right now especially amid all the confusion.
It shows him that you are listening to his requests , not being controlling and you are not acting needy. It is going to be a tough road right now but I am confident that you are going to do great!!
I also think that it is a good idea that you let him deal with his own guilt and if he offers too late about the outlets you let him know that you already have plans. Do not sit around waiting for him, make plans with your friend this weekend to something fun and interesting.