Whether or not to check-in with H

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Thinking it Thru, this is a tough one. I am not a long time poster but I can tell you that I beleive your H knows that you want to be married still. I agree that you should probably avoid any R talk still and let him bring it up.

I know this is very hard. It has been a month since I told my W that I will give her space and time. (really she asked for it, but I like to tell myself it was my decision to give her this) We have not talked R at all. But she made it very clear that she knows that I love her and I am willing to wait for her to work it out if possible. She said she just doesn't want to hear it because she knows it.

My point is that your H probably knows by you saying that you will give him his freedom where you stand. Trust me I know that several weeks feels like years but stick it out and take care of you and stay strong.