Good Morning girls, this thread doesnt want to lock, does it? I am at work, my axH brought the kids to the airport and surprised me with that. The kids were so excited...
Anyway, no talks, no "warm" gestures... But the fact that he came over I guess is a gesture on its own. I'll check on you all later, K
Ali that thing about Mars and Neptune and today being better, is that for all of us or just you Pisceans?
K--
Good morning/good afternoon! The guy you liked won, as if you didn't know already I am sure it is the news heard 'round the world.
Thinking of you today. I want to hear your voice now, I love Sara Palin but I don't hear a bit of "greek" in her accent. In fact, for an Alaskan, I hear some North Dakota or Wisconsin in her voice...
OK back to you. Hope your children and family are all healthy, hope your workday is productive, and hope you have cute, polished, toes!
Hi Bbj, I know, Mr. Obama is your new President. What a great symbolic change!!! An Afroamerican, with his background becoming your President!!! I am sure some of you dont see it, but that is exactly what the American dream is all about, at least in the eyes of the neutral outsiders, something you had no relation to the last few years (again to us neutral outsiders). I was excited this morning about it when I heard on the radio he had won. And I want to watch his speech (you have to admit, he has a great voice). Suddenly I like US more... Enough with "politics", remember, I am just a neutral, "know-nothing" Greek...
I called axH and told him it was a nice surprise to come visit me with the kids. Mainly because my friends at work said I acted foolishly when he was here, meaning cold and distant... He said, "oh, ok..." and we left it at that.
When they were here I said something about a bet I have with my son where I buy him a dog if he wins (not likely at all). So, axH said ok but "we" wont have it in the house. My son just smiled and looked at us. We didnt say anything... K
Kids read between the lines even better than adults, don't they?? When things were 'sticky' last week, my S6 started chewing on the neckline of his shirt again, he hadn't done that since his dad moved back home....
I am sure your S picked up on the "we".
So, what kind of dog? I am thinking Saint Bernard or Newfoundland, something large and shaggy....
WOW! A "we" statement? That was a big step on his part.
I know it's hard to do this K, but you are going to need to soften toward him in order to give this an honest chance. I understand the pain he has put in your heart and that you had to close down to him in order to survive. It's time though to open the door again. Act "as if".....remember? As if you are dating. Flirt with him, smile often. The more you can do that, the more he will demonstrate his changes to you. Remember, you are both scared and scarred now. I know you can do it! You are the strongest woman I have ever had the priviledge of "meeting".
He brought the kids to you at work today because he knew it would make you happy and he would get to see you. Trust me, those had to be his thoughts.
Beautiful, sweet, Kalni. Don't shortchange what could be because of what was.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
In fact, for an Alaskan, I hear some North Dakota or Wisconsin in her voice...