arrrrghhhh .....new it was going to quiet.

STBX just rang (I was about to text) re this afternoon and arrangement for boys which was fine. Then she again starts the when you having the boys overnight conversation so usual, when I've got a place, when is that, after xmas etc. She then say, would I like to stay at the house one night with them ? I'm like ermmm, maybe, you've just thrown it at me. That is basically what I suggested 3 months ago and was a big no no, so why now ? The boys keeping her up ? time with another man ?. She said she would sleep at her mums but I cannot fathom why now.

The bit that annoys me ? Well, I'd jump at the chance but I just hate being in that house now. It no longer feels like my home, it's got to many bad memories for me. Has she slept with another man in our bed ? I know she came home at least once after sleeping with another man and got in that bed with me....all that stuff just makes it feel dirty to me.

Am I over reacting ?