BeingMe,as I have said I am now at a stage in my life, where I have moved on and think ex is going to get what he deserves, and I dont that is in the too distant future, I dont however wish him bad things in fact sometimes I just wish he would come to his senses and realise what he as got involved with. Regards his lovely wifey, I revert back to the time three and half years ago when all this started, it had been going on maybe longer than I realised and I had my eyes opened in the may when I fount the text etc from her, he still lived at home and denied everything he then left in the july, we went on holiday in the august and on our return she was texting me asking if and what we had been getting up to, re sexual nature, I told her it wasnt her business but one text she did send me told me what type of woman she is, and the text read " how do we get him to tell both of us the truth, shall we set/stitch him up" I just thought to myself what a very unsavoury kind, she as split this family up, she wants to know my sexual behaviour with the man I have been with for fourteen years and now she wants me to sneak and do nasty things behind his back to satisfy her, so beingme you cud be right she is up to something whether it is conspiracy or what only time will tell, I do know gut feeling and everything that something over there is not kosher and it definately isnt the way old ex likes to live, but we will have to wait and see, I think he as done and got into something he will regret but wont know how to get out of it.
