I got another take on the email thing. I remember lwb getting really steamed one day that she thought her H had been at her emails. Turned out it had been her kids playing on the PC.....and her eldest is younger than yours.
Don't assume it was your H.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength