and, that my friends, is my stbxh. I believe he only read this thread and not the months and months of threads where I spent everyone ounce of my being trying to find a way to fix my marriage with your help. A marriage that only I was working to repair, to salvage.

I've never claimed to be perfect, but I stand behind what I said. I didn't cheat. I didn't walk away from my spouse. I didn't make my kids pay a price a parent shouldn't ever ask a child to pay outside of abuse or addiction. Heck, I was even willing to overcome the cheating. But I was married to someone to whom marriage, vows and children only mattered for better, not worse. For good times, not bad.

What this site is most guilty of is providing a source of hope when apparently there isn't.

And he did wish divorce upon someone. Me and our kids.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.