Despite what you would probably think, based on all the things you've read about "me", I can certainly appreciate the support and guidance that is provided on this forum. Divorce is hell and I don't wish it on anybody, though my personal belief is that sometimes it makes sense to exit an untenable marriage.
It is however unfortunate that a site intended to serve as a therapeutic outlet seems (based on the many postings I have read, particularly those from cy68) to serve more as a medium on which to spew hateful, destructive and GROSSLY UNTRUTHFUL rhetoric, than a place at which solutions are sought.
There are so many lies, distortions and insults on this forum that (as it applies to my circumstances) it is very hard for me to see how what is being written is constructive, or in any way beneficial to the continued shared interest of parenting young children.
I'm not interested in placing blame (there is plenty to go around on both sides in almost any divorce) and I don't have any qualms about owning up to my own failures, they are, as with any other human being, profound. I'm just trying to move forward with life and put the hate, anger and childish insults on the back burner, these type of exchanges don't help anybody and they don't have anything to do with co-parenting.
