OH, I know that I'm not REALLY stupid; just maybe I've let this go on too long; considering where I think that this is heading.
I posted this on your thread; but I thought I'd mention it here. We were discussing holidays and the fact that I want to take the kids to my Sis' on T-giving. She didn't have any heartburn as she's in retail and will be working mucho hours. Then I mentioned that my Mom's H has Christmas Eve off and I want to take the kids up there then. So she replies, well I'm off at 6. I think she was implying that she wants to go with us; I don't want her there. I just haven't told her yet.