I wrote a letter to H today and faxed it. I outlined boundries regarding coming home. I asked for no contact, I asked that once a week he email me on a wed before 9 ( hence I am not looking for emails everyday )with anything i need to know. i have arranged someone to work for me at his work.
My letter was nice, but very clear. He tried to call 30 min later. I did nt take the call of course and was disappointed that he did not respect my need.
I have arranged to go away for the weekend. I booked a hair appointment and I might do something different. in 2 weeks I go to Aussie for a shopping weekend.
I think i am on my way. bumps to come no doubt but I really feel that fixing myself will put be in a better place, should we decide later to reconcile. I will also Db much better.
Just need to eat again so that I can resume exercise.
