I didn't end up doing anything. Kept it in. Just continuing the no contact thing as much as I can.
So no contact.
Hard to keep that niceness inside of me. The rescuer. The comforter. The rock. Her lean on person.
Hard not to show her that. To offer it to her.
Normal thing tonight. Pick up the girls. Cook some dinner. Watch some Ace Ventura Pet Detective. Showers and then bedtime. I love it. D7 has been very testy last night and this morning. I little tonight too. The wife warned me about her attitude lately. The difference between the wife and I is that I'm not going to give in to her. Pisses D7 off, but she'll learn and besides, she can't stay mad at daddy very long. I always find a way to make her laugh now. Then I give her the talk. That her attitude is just going to hurt her and that it has no effect on me.
My seven year old is going to be the one to do me in.
BTW, I have already warned my boss about FIL. I do hope he comes out of this, but it's only a matter of time at this point. If he passes, it will be interesting for us to be gathering in Laredo. I will take the standard time off for a family member. I know that the wife will not be in any shape to care for the kids, so I expect to have them with me. Even while in Laredo.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
