I just feel for your sitches. I was there, and I know the heartaches, frustrations, and endless waiting for this to just come to a conclusion. Things do improve once a spouse (WAS) moves away. I know the loveless marriage all too well, and its going to get better down the road, with time. Both of you deserve healthy R's, love, joy, peace in your lives.
Controlling our emotions is the hard part, but that's where you will win any argument or button pushing.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~