I LOVE you!!!! T2L, this was exactly what I needed tonight! My H's OW is 10 years older and plain. So true! He even admitted a month ago it wasn't a physical attraction, that she gave him comfort.

In response to Hope's and your advice, I have decided to keep my rings off. This signifies to me that I am continuing to move forward, away from that old relationship. H can join me in a new relationship or not. Regardless, I am going to continue to move forward for myself.

Tomorrow morning H is coming over to get the kids dressed and take them to school. I'm going to ask him to watch the kids tomorrow night so I can go out after work. No details, and just say thanks, that will be great!


Me:33, H:34
T10, M8
S4,S3,S9m
ILYBINILWY 11/07
Separation 1 2/08-8/08
Back Home 8/08-10/08
Separation 2 10/08-
Too many bombs to count:(