needlove, I give you props for doing it. I know it must be extremely hard. I can't even imagine having to still live with STBX while going thru all this. As it is right now, we can't even be around each other without completely ignoring each other or yelling at each other. He knows how to push my buttons and I'm still working on controlling my emotions around him. That's why I ignore him. I try going with the saying...If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all!!!
You definitely deserve love and happiness. You deserve to be respected as a person, mother and wife. You deserve a healthy R.
BTW, if everyone hasn't guess it yet, I've changed my name from Confused13 to Livin4ME. :-)


Me- 29
X - 30
M - 7.5 years
Final April 2009
S - 2005
D - 2007


Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option.

A wise fish once said...Just keep swimming...Just keep swimming!