Tom, you are an amazing dad!!! I do believe that God may be trying to slow you down...the longer this takes, the more you learn about yourself. And, I'm guessing that you learn more about W too. I just feel really sad for your W...just the fact that her family thinks you are crazy for sticking around tells me that you are the first person in her life to actually try to love her unconditionally.
I do believe that at some point you'll know if it's time to give up. And, when you do, you'll be ready to move on without looking back!
I'm still praying for you and your kids!!!
Hugs to ya! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!