Well apparently the W noticed the pictures of her and us were down and gone. she commented toher mother that i put the pictures away, even the one her uncle had drawn of her. I am apparently striking nerves. she doesn't talk to her mother about these things, but the pictures seemed to bother her. Her mother told her she disdn't blame me, its hard for him to look at pictures of you two in love and being so happy. I did not mention her clothes, but apparently she hasn't talked to her mother since Sunday night. she told her mother that my D had said that I didn't want my W over my house Xmas day. I didn't want to be upset or a wreck because of her. Her mother is going to stay with me. The W has been told she cannot stay over and will not be here when we are up Xmas morning. That is at least my position right now. I have set my boundaries and my kids are defending them.
I have definitely struck nerves by stting these boundaries, wish i had done it sooner. Her mother wanted to call about her aunt who is very sick, but she also wanted me to know that the W made a big deal about the puictures and the fact that she stuck up for me doing it. She thought I should know.
