2008 = Crazy Year (Screwed up 16)

[kat727]

Well you know how to fill your time up. I am so sorry that you are having to go through all of this, well that any of us are having to go through this actually.

I think just staying as calm and as factual will make this easier. I know it is awful to think of it as business but that is what it is about in the end. Lawyers and Judges don't care about feelings, adultry, morals and justice as far as ending the relationship. One person just has to say I am done and the process begins. Cruel actually. I hope your justice system is better in Canada because I hope they care about those things.

Have a good night.

kat

[whatdidido]

What did the lawyer letter say? Should be an interesting night. Stay calm and loving. Seems impossible, but if anyone can do it, you could.

[lost_in_space]

(((Kat))). Thanks.
Legal system about the same - don't care why. Oh well. We are all in the same boat I suppose.

(((wdid)))

I will try.

Letter from L talked of
- $$ and me w/d funds and taking financial control (not true - just stopped depositing pay and still paying bills and financially responsible; also raised the $$ she has blown in the response)

- me leaving house asap or start court order

- me not wanting to go to C with k's (not true but had concerns going to see W's C with k's since I wasn't there at start)

More of the same...

[lost_in_space]

Night will be ok. W is at the rink for adult skating and I have to take S13 to hockey soon. W was rather b'chy when I got home. Don't think she knows I have her letter and definitely know she hasn't seen my response - not out yet.

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh... it is calm here.

And for some reason, I feel very much at peace right now. Does that make sense????

[kat727]

It is, I believe, the calm before the storm. Hold on to your hats folks, the ride is about to begin!!

kat

[lost_in_space]

ANOTHER RIDE???? Yipee!

(((kat))). I know.

I will get through because of my k's, my friends (at home and for sure HERE! ) and the "new" (hopefully) me.

[carpenter54]

LIS


I think you are calm because you know deep inside YOU are doing the rite thing for yourself and the little LISes.

It seems strange but I have found some peace also knowing this as well

[lost_in_space]

Update.

OMW replied to my e-mail. She wants to chat. I asked her for a convenient time to call her tomorrow evening (W will be out of town). Will just be the facts that I know.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Very good.

[Babygirl]

hey LIS just flying threw your post on my broom lol! checking on you to make sure you are doing ok, the land of ahhhhhhhhhhhhhss is gonna be an icky place to be weatherwise, its november and we are in a tornado watch! so stupid! dorothy might be killing another witch today heheheheheh!