Same as you mate. i'm a pomme in NZ for my kinwi W. Now she has gone there is a kind of "what am i doing here question'
The friends thing is hard. My w is quite happy being friends and i get the idea i could be her friend for the next 20 years -
I kind of understand if couples break on unfriendly terms then there is progress to be made. My w and i have been very good friends - we were great frind the first time she slept with om - even called me the following day to see how i was.
Don't know - i sometimes think this DB'ing is just prolonging the inevitable grief process
Like your w how do you spend time with someone you love and not BE with them. It's like a starving man having the steak just a mm away from the fork
Stinking sw in Dunedin today - i live in Andy Bay overlooking the ocean so it's a pretty spectacualr view of the ocean .
I had such major anxiety and panic attacks - i think it's worse when you don't have your support group near - like when you're not in your home country
