I agree with the easier and less stress when they are not around.
I think it has to do with some cosmic "negative energy" or something. Even if you don't interact or talk or anything it is still tense. I know at my house I am not tense.....but I know she is.
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6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM