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mC--Crazy afternoon for me. Just checking in, I have to remember you are over here now. Glad S did well in soccer. I've seen my S score one goal in three seasons. He usually is goalie so my joy comes in seeing him successfully defend.

Happy you enjoyed the weekend in Cincy. I have felt or feel all of the things you've mentioned in your post above. The only reason I feel I need to leave a window cracked is to make my kids happy. What else can we do?


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{{{Tom}}} You are a very wise man!

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I agree with the easier and less stress when they are not around.

I think it has to do with some cosmic "negative energy" or something. Even if you don't interact or talk or anything it is still tense. I know at my house I am not tense.....but I know she is.


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Originally Posted By: Little Engine
mC--Crazy afternoon for me. Just checking in, I have to remember you are over here now. Glad S did well in soccer. I've seen my S score one goal in three seasons. He usually is goalie so my joy comes in seeing him successfully defend.

Happy you enjoyed the weekend in Cincy. I have felt or feel all of the things you've mentioned in your post above. The only reason I feel I need to leave a window cracked is to make my kids happy. What else can we do?


My boy HATES goalie. He thrives at halfback. That's his forte.

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I agree with the easier and less stress when they are not around.

I think it has to do with some cosmic "negative energy" or something. Even if you don't interact or talk or anything it is still tense. I know at my house I am not tense.....but I know she is.


I'm a little tense sometimes; maybe it's just I still wonder what IS she thinking?


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{{{Tom}}} You are a very wise man!

Tawnya


Thanks Tawnya. I'm still undecided if I'm wise or very stupid.


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I remember you saying he hated goalie. I don't know why my S likes it, but he does pretty well at it.


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but he does pretty well at it.


I bet that's why he likes it.


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I loved goalie, the power in all honesty, the only girl, imagine that to play with boys.

tom. love ya bud, you answered my questions, no matter what happens, i know you and the kids will be just fine. thats what i was worried about, sorry you have to explain thier mother, i would take that if i could, that part irks me. we carry them, give birth, for real, something is wrong with her.

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Tom, you are an amazing dad!!! I do believe that God may be trying to slow you down...the longer this takes, the more you learn about yourself. And, I'm guessing that you learn more about W too. I just feel really sad for your W...just the fact that her family thinks you are crazy for sticking around tells me that you are the first person in her life to actually try to love her unconditionally.

I do believe that at some point you'll know if it's time to give up. And, when you do, you'll be ready to move on without looking back!

I'm still praying for you and your kids!!!

Hugs to ya!
Amy


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