This will probably sound cruel but please don't go the extra mile for her right now. Be there for her family and your daughters. She dug this hole and you being extra nice and sweet is just going to sugar coat it for a while longer. Don't go out of your way to be mean either but put the kind thoughts and attention where they need to be and with those that deserve it.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory