I meant that post as a complete joke.......I didn't mean to offend, and I sincerely apologize if I did. Truthfully, I don't think I would ever feel "vindicated" or happy to see my H suffering. In fact, I think I would feel even worse, because that would make it seem that much more difficult to understand.

TJ

Me45,H49
D24,S18
M26,T28
Bomb 3/19/08
Sep 6/23/08
EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8
3/2009 H moved in w/OW2
7/2009 Let him go w/Love.
8/2009 Legally Sep'd