Met with my L today, We talked a little my sitch, he understood exactly what was going on with my w. It was a surprise. He said. "You love her, You do not want this at all." "So this is want you want me to do, drag my feet, be as nice as possible and with as little cost as possible."
I said yes, He looked right at me as if he already new about people in crisis. "I've seen this before, I can tell because I don't get many people in here like you." " Do you understand that she may never wake up." I was a little surprised. I said yes but it worth the shot.
He new what I was going through, he said he doesn't see it too often but has seen it a few times.
He seems to be a very nice guy( I'd never thought I'd say that about a L). I do realize that I'm paying him in 6 min. intervals and $50-$75 per page letters and $50 phone calls.(very very aware of this) W's L and him deal with each other on a daily basis.(go figure) I have to be very careful about how much $ I'm spending. WHAT A RACKET. Anyway, not much happening other than that.
I do not want any part of the divorce machine that runs in high gear on a daily basis. It's so sad, however if it happens it happens. This has been one heckuva ride so far, it aint close to over either.
