Glad everyone is getting out to vote. Just took my walk around the building about 1.5 miles - do once in the morning, once in the afternoon (everyone here smokes and spends all their time in the smoke shacks so I take off for 15/20 minutes for my powerwalk and to talk to myself and blow off steam!
All, you are making progress but detach detach detach from all of those conversations about OW. Next time H starts talking about dates, OW, internet - put your hand up and say "STOP", I am uncomfortable about having talks about your infidelity. Please respect my boundaries, we have to share a house but I do not have to share these conversations. It is disrespectful to me. (say this in front of a mirror ten times!) If this is what H wants to do -- do not act friendly because it is almost like you support it. As far as hugging, kissing etc, -- are you the one going in for the kiss or is it him? I would not approach them, they need to approach us. My opinion only.
Faith, I am lol about your H saying "do I look fat", that is EXACTLY what my H said on Friday. Instead of agreeing I said, you look fine and that is a really nice shirt you are wearing (admiration - top 5). As far as the rings, you need to decide if you want them on. It has to be our decision -- not theirs. They don't decide we do. I currently am wearing my ring, not sure if I will wear it when I go home for X-mas. Will worry about it then.
take care.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
