It is part of what happened to us! I did make an infant out of my H. I did everything for him and I did not trust him to do things the "right" way. This is how my parents are and I believe some of it was learned behavior. But I'm not blaming them of course.
When the couple in the show was in the car driving - and she kept saying they were going to get lost etc, etc, - that is totally me. Telling him how to drive, where to go, etc.
Bad, bad, bad.
The thing that is hard is that I think he thinks that is what happened and now it is done - there's nothing to fix it. But there is!!! At least I think so.
I am soooooo scared attempt to go past the friends level. Scared of what he will say. Those are all good ideas you gave, I just have to decide what it the best option. Don't you think the fact that he taped it for me and called me - that in itself is a good sign?
M:36 H:36 M 3 Y T 8 Y No kids Bomb 6/30/08 PA I filed 9/29/09 D final 1/22/2010
