T2L, thank you for that awesome summary. I am printing it so I can committ it to memory. Hope, it wasn't that you changed my mind with what you said, but it was a great observation that really made me think.
T2L I would have LMAO if you would have put a hickie on the other side of H's neck. That would have been hilarious!
Hope, I love your 180 with the outfits to show off your new figure. My H has also gained what I lost, and I love it! He asks all the time, do I look fat?
T2L I realized that I didn't master my mouth at all last night, even though he apologized up and down. My struggle is with my wedding rings. He noticed them off and seemed to be upset by it. He said "I know you always said I would be your husband (we talked once before he left about me being a stander)" and then got angry "I wondered when you would put them away". So I wonder, did he feel threatened that I had them off? Like for the first time he saw me moving on? Phoenixdeux said on another post that it's not a good idea to give guys the feeling they can let the A play out and then come home whenenver. And it seems by his comment that he remembered what I had said about standing and seeing the rings off shook his tree and made him mad. Like that option was off the table.
Maybe that's a good thing for him to think that I'm not going to wait around for him to see if the A works out, and I should keep the rings off?
Me:33, H:34 T10, M8 S4,S3,S9m ILYBINILWY 11/07 Separation 1 2/08-8/08 Back Home 8/08-10/08 Separation 2 10/08- Too many bombs to count:(
