Ok....so you had nothing left from the night before and she thinks you are holding back???? I am also confused????? But it sounds like your wife is happy and you are also (minus the sex part / i think).
Not much to report (normally when I say this somthing happens).
But anyway W and I have been catching up on the american politics, had the laptop in bed with us watching Obama victory speech, Mccain concession speech, then all the fantastic stuff about Sarah Palin, mainly on youtube can't find any serious stuff about her.
D7 had some form of allergic reaction to her food last night (face all swollen and puffy) so I'm taking the day off with her. Can't go out so I'm gonna be on the computer most of the day catching up with you guys.
The only real drama recently was I took Rob's advice and I've not made a real fuss over sex, just been nice and caring with W. Anyway during October W has initiated twice but it hasn't happened for us. I mean alarm goes off at 5.45 in the morning, 5.50 I get a digs in the ribs, W wants a quickie but is not really making an effort. I'm thinking I need to be in the shower 6.00am so I'm not late for work,
Lanz,
Sorry if I am late on this but.............If this happened to me?????????I'D CALL IN SICK.....Or Car trouble........Or "sorry my alarm didn't go off........Or "a Meteor fell last night and struck my car.... (Ok they probably would not go for that last one.........It's has been sooooo looooong (no pun intended).. If she held my had I have a "Pre Mature" if ya know what I mean.....
Doc
(I mean with my wife not yours)
Last edited by Dr LOve; 11/07/0812:27 PM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I think I was at your stage at the start of this year I wasn't getting anything, but I would gladly have gladly taken anything on offer, but the more you get, the more you want, then you want it on your terms. However, W and I have made great progress but we still need to get ourselves on the same level. Little example, after the incident you quote W has now told me not to disturb her in the mornings. I'm not gonna debate it anymore but if she doesn't know what she wants and when she wants it how can I.
I think it is a human thing....I guess that is why some affairs occur. People want what they can't have.....Then when they get it....... Not as serous an issue But I have this tendency to really want an abject..( new tool, assessory for my car ect..) And I save up and then when I get the money I think... "I really don't NEED that" and end up not getting it. Yes you are allot farther down the road than I. But...so far things are looking good for me. I have always been told that nobody controls our moods / feelings unless we let them. I keep reminding myself this..
Take care buddy
Me
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know