Thought I would drop by and join the discussion....actually everyone has the right to their opinion. I have mine but often choose to keep it to myself...only release it at what i think is the right time. We all seem to go around in circles...but I can remember way back when we were all newbies, someone used to ask "are you in or out?". That is the real question...once you are sure it should get a little easier to focus but if we waiver back and forth, we are at the mercy of the WAS rollercoaster. I think about you ofetn and hope you get what you deserve (happiness) soon.