Is it the fog or is he really in love?

[AllW8SBF]

YES YES YES! This is what I'm talking about - God was talking to him - saying hey look it over hear. And I will tell you, it's there in the back of his head seeing you. And it will go bye bye when he's back in the fog, but every once in a while he'll remember. I remember when this Bomb happened before and we thought we repaired our M back then, H told me of a time something he heard reminded him of me and he tried to get it out of his mind and talked himself out of it. But it happened again in a different sense and made him think of both occasions and that was the start of what got him thinking about coming back. So those LITTLE things are really BIG!

Their so in the fog and like Sugar and Spice said, their in fantasy land they don't want the buzz kill so they don't think of the reality. Like my H is searching for OW and he tells me ALL about it, and the results are PATHETIC - he's got these woman 1) who are willing to date a guy who says he's separated and yet living with W and won't be able to file for another 1yr to 2 yrs. 2) The really pathetic part on my H's part is these woman are yanking him around, making him wait last minute to make plans then backing out, calling and saying sorry my friends don't think I should see you, maybe we can do this again later, (while their friend is in the background saying not you buddy). And these woman are in different states. I mean they are not interested but he BENDS over backwards for them, moving out of our bedroom and starting to wash his own clothes and making his own dinner - for WHAT? They won't even give him a date, or if they do they make him crazy about it. SOOOOO SAD!
I'm am fully prepared for one of these to work out, but I read that the chemistry thing lasts 6 months to 2 yrs tops before the chemicals that make you feel the euphoria is gone. Well I'm not sure if I'll be around that long, but I am sure it will END, these WAS are fooling themselves if they think the next will be never ending. AND WE are fooling ourselves if we think that just going status quot the rest of our lives with our spouse will keep us happy. We always need to keep our GAL skills, and 180 practices to keep life fresh.