How to treat a WAW when I've stopped chasing her?

[dday101798]

So since she told you that, what is your current state then after her telling you all that?

I assume you mean how are things now since after she told there was no mf'n way?

We're speaking on sane terms. She wants to redevelop our contact in a "sane, civil matter in order for things to progress". The kink, she still is with OM. But I can tell through her she does not want to be, but yet is scared to let go just yet.

She has said flat out she is confused and doesn't know what to do.

Hindsight, she knows she's wrong, she knows that grass isn't there. Basically IMO her WTF have I done ride has begun.

I just have to better myself and set boundires to work with her on being 'friends' again while she clings to OM, whom I know is showing less and less interest in her, thus gives me the opportunity to express the interest in her that I didn't show that started her on her way out.