Yes, there is something to be said for traditional roles. Everyone knows what's expected and what they can count on that way. In my experience, too often the wife ends up with additional responsibilities and has to be the husband and the wife. I wonder if this kind of thing will ever balance out, if the pendulum will ever swing back toward center?


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012