As a man, how do you explain the sitch to his soon to be child?
RMG...thats the problem, they don't think about these things. I have often wondered what my H and the Troll are going to tell their child about her origins.
They have "Scarlett O'Hara" thinking...I won't think about that today, I'll think abou that tomorrow. Thinking about those type of realities take the "fantasy" out of the fantasy and that would be a total buzzkill.
You are looking at this from a rational stance, he is in a fog and for all intents and purposes might as well have been abducted by aliens. What man would go and engage in a PA at the married OW's house while her H is HOME? This is not a person who is firing on all cylinders.
Donna, do yourself a favor and take care of yourself. Do the very best you can for you. ((((hugs))))
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
