H-wise it's been another confusing day I have to say...Did my usual sign into IM while I went for a walk and ran some errands. As soon as I came back, I got a message within 30 seconds, though just about the boiler. I was polite, said only Thank you, then nothing else. An hour later, I'm asked how the pets are, and he says he misses one of them. At this time I had purposely set myself to away as I was busy doing something. He follows up, "I know you are there". So about 10 minutes later, I respond. Then I left to get my hair done, a 2.5 hour ordeal...during this time he texts me and calls me by the indisputably sweet nickname "little" to ask about the boiler repairman.
I get home to more IMs about how he's sorry I had to wait home all day for the repairman (who incidentally is STILL not here as of nearly 5 PM), and "as a prize" he'll take me to the outlet stores this weekend...So I just said "outlet store" and used this silly emoticon next to it--no response.
So lots of granular detail, but my point is that I am SOOOO confused. I am still looking for inspiration about how to handle being/not being in the house now. I think I will definitely stay at least the next 3 nights at my friend's house, have already cleared this with her, but I hate the thought of having yet another conversation about this. I guess I'll just leave a note and ask him to let me know which day he wanted to go to the outlet store, and that I could come by on Saturday or Sunday but to let me know so I can make plans? I feel like he should directly ask me to stay at this point, and since I do have another place to stay at the moment, it's not that big of a deal to me...
Today is odd, not bad, just odd...
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
