Yikes! I asked for 2x4s but I didn't know they'd still have the nails in them--
For those who are keeping up, I already decided that I am not lawyering up, at this point it is NOT what I truly want and would only be posturing, posturing which could prematurely lead to divorce.
Also, my H has made it clear he is scared. So I am not in the mood to "push" him or "spook" him right now. I had my little meltdown, I am over it.
I am moving forward today, focusing on TODAY. Can't change yesterday, can't control tomorrow. Today I will do my best to be a good mom, friend, teacher, and yes, wife. I am giving my H space and taking care of me........