I disagree with PD. I don't get why it is just fine for the WAS to have some kind of emotional crisis that leads him act erratically, but PD thinks the LBS has no right to react. We are humans. The H's crisis directly caused the W's crisis. She is entirely entitled to her feelings. And in a marriage he needs to deal with her feelings just as much as she needs to deal with his. His emotional crisis should not be a "get out of dealing with your spouse's feelings free" card.
That said, I like your new attitude BBJ. I hope you can keep it up when he comes back.
