I am now accepting the fact that she hates everything I do and will only so what I feel is best for me and my kids. Just thinking about her or seeing her or talking to her now makes me angry.....I do not like how it feels....I just need to end this part of my life and move on....
Then think about her out of your life and think about how good that will be...no more wife sitting around hating you. It's draining living under all that. I'd be giddy with the excitement of having her out. Staying in the same place with all of this is just toxic. Looking forward to being away from it all should put a smile on your face. Next time she spews, but smile at the thought that it doesn't have to be much longer. Say, "just hold on a bit more. Nothing she says now matters because I'm done." Know that you've let her go and you'll be strong.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
