I can't explain how we've managed to live with each other for so long. I too have days where I'm like leave already. I took crap recently for changing the phone bill. It's in his name, but I authorized "bundling" of services to save us some money. He flipped. Waiting for 3 days before telling me he had his own car insurance. H probably wouldn't have told me except that I questioned him on the insurance after he yelled at me for the phone bill.
All I can say is that I am taking it one day at a time. It helps that he works so much that he's not home much. I think part of his reaction/anger is for putting us in this situation in the first place. Don't let your husband push your buttons. Hard to do, I know, but necessary.
Had my H admitted to some stuff and said I want to work things out, I'd have stayed. However he can't even say he's sorry for his 1/2 of our problems. What kind of example would I be teaching my daughter if I stayed in a loveless marriage.
What I'm slowly learning is that "I too DESERVE love and happiness."
My thoughts seem to be all over the place today but here is a final thought. Live by Dory's words. Things will eventually get better.
Me 35 H 41 M 10 years Together 12 years D,6 SS, 17,19
