Found out she made comments like" What the F#$%, why did he pack up my clothes, i know I don't live here, but he knows I stop by" And thn she went looking for her clothes. younger D told her they are in a big box. she found her things from the closet, but no the box. didn't take anything. D says she didn't stay long. they talked a little about the weekend. D told her I spent all weekend working int he yard and went out saturdayt night. It was a lie, but she doesn't want to get caught up with her mother. She said her mother really didn't seem rocked by the clothes, but it definitely upset her. there was no note, no text, no phone call from her.
Younger D says she doesn't think W noticed the pictures missing. We are doing the frams of the friends and family thing tonight or Thursday night. I am buying another large collage one for my "Friends in Low Places".
The comment that she made about " He knows I still come by for clothes every now and then" was exactly the impact I wanted. Now that is one less reason for her to need to come by. Lock for my room will be changed tonight, cuz now she knows there is nothing for her in that room. House door lock will change this weekend.
Anyway, country line dancing last night. I feel like a school boy. I had mentioned that I am taking lessons and the people are nice, not a crowd I would typically hang with, but really nice people. A nice looking woman was there last week with her friend. From the back, I thought it was my W. So much, that I almost left. anyway, during the lessons last week she moved from the back to right behind me. Nice. Lat night, right behind me, but then she broke the ice asking me if I had a son named Matt, he's her son's friend, nice looking kid, you look just like him, blah, blah, blah...We went and sat down, her at her table, me at mine. Later on we were doing a line dance that is kinds couples. Me and her ended up together laughing and really getting into it. We talked some more abouthockey, how I had coached and playe and been ont he mass hockey board. Her father used to play her sons didn't get involved, blah, blah, blah...
Went backout for the end of the lessons and were talking more and laughing. When we went to leave, I said bye and was way ahead of her. She caught up to me at the stairs pretty quck with her friend trailing. I kinda slowed p for her friend to catch up. they were going to the bar for a drink and I said good night. I talked with my daughter when I got home and was telling her about the lessons and this woman. My D informed me that I was being hit on, the woman is definitely interested. I disagreed. My D went on to say , she is definitely interested, broke the ice with you, last week moved from where she was to directly behind you, lined herself up at one of the dances to be across from you so you were partnered, hurreid to walk with you and left her friend straggling. Trust me Dad, she's interested.
I feel weird...I asked my D if I should have gone to the bar with them. she says, no, play it cool. You don't want to be too much. Playing it this way, you will be more interesting. they have dances on Saturday nights upstairs and I am not sure if she goes or not. My D says if you aren't doing anything, go. You are taking the lessons, go to a dance. If she's there, great, if not, whatever. dance and have fun.
It just felt nice to talk to a woman who seemed interested in everything I said. Called me by my name several times during the conversation. Its been a while. I didn't see any signs, but now that I look back, maybe...
My D says my W looked OK, still skinny and haggard as she says. My W made comments that the house looked good. My D says, yeah Dad makes sure its vaccuumed 2-3 times a week and that I dust once a week. She told her that I get into projects really fast and kee going until they are done. My W says she knows that, she said to my D that her used to work on the house til 2-3 in the morning. she used to have to tell me to stop for the night. My D says he doesn't get that crazy, but he goes non stop for hours and hours. W asked whose wine was in the fridge. D was going to tell her it was my girlfriends. She said its Dad's. She says a bottle of wine lasts him about 3 weeks. He has a glass during the football games.
QUESTION: Am I wrong for feeling high school giddy about this woman flirting with me and possibly being interested? I feel good that moving my W clothes and packing them away had exactly the impact I wanted. Am I wrong for feeling good that she was upset by it?
I feel good and bad about everything that has transpired in the last 12 hours.
